The 6th Insight of the Celestine Prophecy defines control dramas in relationships. In order to control their partner, men and women manipulate their partner’s mental energies and cause them to flow their way. Mental energies follow attention, hence, the relationship battle is a battle for attention. The more attention you get the more you control your relationship.
According to the Celestine Prophecy, four basic control drama strategists exist:
1. The intimidator
2. The aloof
3. The interrogator
4. The poor-me
Why four? Because of the four elements of personality:
1. Fire = willful (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
2. Water = passionate (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
3. Air = intelligent (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
4. Earth = practical (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
Fire and air people tend to be aggressive, water and earth people tend to be defensive.
A willful partner likes to intimidate and threaten. A passionate spouse will act mystical and secretive to peak curiosity. An intelligent better half will question and criticize. A practical mate will go on about how hard he/she works and how many sacrifices he/she makes.
Step 1: Understand in which category your partner falls
Step 2: Understand in which category you fall.
Step 3: Understand what control drama has been going on between your parents and how it impacted you
Step 4: Talk to your partner and bring your control drama to light.
Comments on the interrogator:
Intimidator and intimidator = brawl
Intimidator and interrogator = brawl
An intimidator has a hard time against the aloof (whatever).
An intimidator and poor-me = draw
Mind that all the above has nothing to do with love.